When trying to say no in a sensitive way, you could say: I enjoy being with you a lot, but I don’t think I am ready for this yet.
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“I was introduced to my future husband by email, met him for the first time on Skype and married him two months later,” says Divya.
Divya got married two years ago to a match arranged by her father’s friend. According to her even though an arranged marriage doesn’t sound like the most romantic thing in the world, it’s the best decision she has made in her life.
A lot of women think that what men really want are dumb women who are good looking.
I know some men who have issues with this. Just like some women have a thing for ‘bad boys’, some men admit that they have a thing for ‘bimbos’. But saying that all men like this is a little extreme.
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But we have to take these things with a pinch of salt. These are scenarios that most people only live out in their head. They are just fantasies and their fantasy value gets destroyed the moment it turns real.
For example, would any of the women who like ‘bad boys’ really like to date a man who is emotionally messed up, drinks and curses a lot and slaps them around as well? Because if their fantasy became real that’s what they would be dealing with.
In any case, this is definitely not my fantasy, of course I have my own preferences as far as looks go. But like most people, I know that there is more to a person than their looks.
By Siddharth, 26-year-old Team Leader (BPO)
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