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“I’ve never felt so guilty in my life,” says Anmol. He’s been with his girlfriend for two years but lately he’s found himself fantasising about her best friend.
“I don’t want to mess up my relationship over something like this but I really don't know how to get her friend out of my mind,” says Anmol. “I’m turned on every time I’m around her.”
Q: Will one emergency contraceptive pill be enough if we had unprotected sex multiple times the night before? Charu, Chandigarh
Auntyji says... Satsriakaal! Ki haal Chaal? A big helloji to Charu from my very own Chandigarh where I spent the flower of my youth. Anyway, here in ‘Aunty Land’ we break the ice by having chilled Rooh Afza…
I thought that I had never been dumped until six months after my last relationship ended.
My ex-boyfriend had staged our break-up in a way that it felt like a mutual decision. But later, when I found out that he was already dating his ‘colleague’, I realised I had been the victim of a skillful and heartless dumping.
The break-up that tops my list of real life horror stories happened three years ago.
It was the first time I had ever dumped someone and it felt like getting a root canal without anesthesia – slow and painful. The “process” started with an email before dragging on into the longest week of my life.
Q: I’ve been living with my boyfriend for two years and I’ve just discovered that he still watches porn and also masturbates.
Our sex life is certainly not as exciting as when we first got together but I don’t see that as an excuse. These activities make me feel both cheated and unwanted. What should I do? Should I confront him? Richa Mehra, Bangalore
A friend of mine just recovered from saying ‘no’ to a guy. “When I said ‘no’ to him, I didn’t expect us to stop being friends,” she told me.
Saying ‘no’ is among the most difficult things to do in life. It’s usually involves not only saying ‘no’, but also being exact in conveying what you are saying ‘no’ to. And with matters of love, it can get even more complicated.
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