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Fantasising about my girlfriend’s best friend

Fantasising about my girlfriend's best friend“I’ve never felt so guilty in my life,” says Anmol. He’s been with his girlfriend for two years but lately he’s found himself fantasising about her best friend.

“I don’t want to mess up my relationship over something like this but I really don't know how to get her friend out of my mind,” says Anmol. “I’m turned on every time I’m around her.”


Anus

The anus is the opening of your bowel - where the poo comes out.

The anus is sensitive, which is why some people include it in their lovemaking.

You can stroke your partner’s anus when you make love, or your own when you masturbate. It can also feel nice if your anus is licked. Some people like having a penis or fingers inside their anus. This is called anal sex.

If you would like to include anal sex in your lovemaking, wash your anus with mild soap and water first. Some people also prefer to take an enema or laxative suppository before having anal sex to clean out the bowels, so their partner doesn’t get poo on their penis or finger. Read more about anal sex here.
 

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