Myth: masturbating can make you blind or infertile. If this were true, there would be many more blind people and many fewer children!
Love and Sex Info
“I’ve never felt so guilty in my life,” says Anmol. He’s been with his girlfriend for two years but lately he’s found himself fantasising about her best friend.
“I don’t want to mess up my relationship over something like this but I really don't know how to get her friend out of my mind,” says Anmol. “I’m turned on every time I’m around her.”
Female condoms aren’t just for women. In Zimbabwe, men use the word ‘tekenyenza’ to describe the gorgeous tickle he feels when his penis rubs on the inner ring of the female condom.
After putting in a lubricated condom, some Indian women said they had their first orgasms!
1. Squeeze the inner ring (the smaller one), making the sides touch.
2. Push the inner ring in as far as it will go. Leave the larger ring on the outside.
3. Guide your partner's penis into the outer ring.
4. When you've finished, twist the condom three times, then pull it out.
Tips for female condoms
“Tease me, tease me, till I lose control”
Get your partner to put the condom in your vagina, and then using fingers or his penis to gently massage the outer ring on your labia or clitoris.
“Look but don’t touch”
Alternatively, you could put the condom in while your partner watches. Tell your partner that he can look but not touch!
“Bump and grind”
Many women like it when their partner hits the inner ring of the female condom. Try it to see if you like it too… Apparently, this is pretty erotic for the guys – so much so that in Ghana men buy female condoms to masturbate with!
“You’re making me so hot”
Unlike most male condoms, female ones are made out of polyurethane, which is thinner than latex. So much so that when you’re having intercourse you can feel your partner’s body heat.
“It only makes that noise when you’re doing it right”
Female condoms can make a crinkly noise when you’re having sex, which can put some people off. However, you can tell your partner it only makes sexy noises when he’s doing it right!
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