Many people don’t label themselves as either homosexual or heterosexual – they’re somewhere in between. They see sexuality as fluid.
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Coming out to my parents: from horror to pride
When Nakshatra goes out for a coffee with his mother, they’re both on the look-out for cute men. “Do you fancy that guy?” she’ll say.
Things haven’t always been this way. Growing up in a village, he became aware of his feelings aged 16. A year later, after a move to Mumbai, he told his parents he was gay. His mum said she wished he was dead.
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Sex with no strings attached: a mood booster?
Did that Saturday-night fling put a spring in your step? Feeling good after a one-night stand might explain why 50 to 80% of young adults in the US have flings.
But how good you feel afterwards depends a lot on your mood before you hooked up, a US study found.
Mood
If you’ve been feeling great, a hook-up involving intercourse can actually leave you depressed and lonely afterwards, the study of young university students reported.
But if you’re feeling blue to begin with it has the opposite effect. A fling involving intercourse lifted the spirits of students who felt lonely and depressed beforehand.
An improved mood could be why depressed students were more likely to have flings. Hooking up during the school year might have helped them cope with the stress of a difficult semester, suggest researchers.
Solution
A great one-night stand may lift your spirits, but it won’t be a long-term solution for depression or loneliness, researchers warn.
A quick fling won’t get to the root of the problems that caused depression and loneliness. It seems being aware of your reasons for wanting a one-night stand and your expectations is the best way to prepare for how you’ll feel afterwards.
Photo: Flickr/Toni Blay
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